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Sadly, this didn't work out.
Topic Started: Jun 30 2015, 01:58 AM (2,132 Views)
Delfeir
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Adachi is not amused.

So I was foolish. I shared personal details regarding my situation during my two years of absence on a private part of this forum, hoping to educate a few people and at the same time deliver a warning and advice to those who might find themselves in similar undesirable situations. Unfortunately, despite this being done with absolutely no intention of causing disrespect or hurt but as a means of catharsis, it has since come back to bite me in the ass. Said topic has now been deleted so don't go looking for it if you missed it.

Nonetheless, between that and a few other things, it's made it clear that this attempt to slip right back in as if I never left the forum simply didn't work out. There's no point in trying to act as if the past two years didn't happen, as much as I would have liked that, and if bringing up any of it is going to cause issues with others, then it hardly seems worth my time to put up such a facade. So I'll be back to being absent again. Most won't notice and even less will care, and that's fine, but I'm just posting this for clarity.

You can find me on Skype as ever under the name "Delfeir" if you so choose. I'll happily talk to most people, though I'm not much of a conversation starter. If somebody notifies me about the next Rumble, I'll likely return simply for that. Other than that, it's been fun.

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The Phantom Squee
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Sound the horn and call the cry: "How many of them can we make die?"

I'm sorry that happened to you, man. I appreciate what you were trying to do and hope to see you around sometime. Peace.
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Gilgamesh
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solbowz Aurarius

What really? Did posting that stuff just make you feel a way you didn't think you would, or did somebody else honestly get upset over it or something?

If the latter, holy shit, you are awful, whoever you are

We didn't really interact in your brief return because I felt too awkward, but I wish you the best either way, Delf
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Saelnaha
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Let's just wait and see what happens.

To Delf: I'm sorry it had to end this way. :/

To whoever is responsible (if you're even still here): Fuck you and everything you stand for.
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Super Slash


I'm sorry that happened Delf. I really was glad to see you return. I guess I'll add you on Skype, you're a great guy.
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Saturos
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heart-under-blade

If someone did break the kind of unspoken privacy from sharing things out of a private forum, that's pretty uncool. I don't know about the militant "[radio edit] you," but I think it's at least worth considering and reflecting on. In the past whenever that's happened, it generally only causes trouble. Because if someone wants to say what they honestly think of someone, in a way they wouldn't necessarily say outright to another person, I think there's usually a reason for that and that should be respected.
That being said, Delf didn't even say if that's what happened. So I think jumping to that conclusion may've been a bit hasty.

Also, Delf,
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Most won't notice and even less will care, and that's fine, but I'm just posting this for clarity.

You have got to stop doing this, man. Whenever people reach out to you or tell you they care, you straight-up saying they don't is really unfair and it seems a bit selfish. I don't know if you're trying to push people away or not, but yeah, don't insinuate that people's emotions aren't real. I think it's for people to decide if they'll notice and if they care or not.

That being said, take care of yourself, and I hope your life gets back on track...

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Jun 30 2015, 03:36 AM
Also, Delf,
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Most won't notice and even less will care, and that's fine, but I'm just posting this for clarity.

You have got to stop doing this, man. Whenever people reach out to you or tell you they care, you straight-up saying they don't is really unfair and it seems a bit selfish. I don't know if you're trying to push people away or not, but yeah, don't insinuate that people's emotions aren't real. I think it's for people to decide if they'll notice and if they care or not.
I agree with this as well. You say that kind of thing all the time and I don't know why, because you know people like you. And assuming you know other peoples' feelings is just...not right.
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Shiroi Jigoku
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It really (REALLY) sucks that this happened, man. Hopefully things get better and I still see you around on Skype (the few times I'm actually on it). If it is any consolation, though, if the topic you're talking about is the one I think it is, I honestly learned a valuable lesson from it, and I appreciate the fact that you did share it.
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Aevis Martius Ravi
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Origins

That really sucks, hate to hear that happened.

I enjoyed you being around, you had some interesting insigts into topics and whatnot. Take care, hope things turn out better for you.
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Jenn-uh
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There's no point in trying to act as if the past two years didn't happen, as much as I would have liked that...

Why not? Whatever happened in the last two years is your business. If people try to pry then tell them to eff off. You're under no obligation to talk to them about it. Honestly, no one is more conscious of whatever happened than you, because everyone else is too busy worrying about their own problems. (And probably most people don't know what this mysterious past is??? It's all rather mysterious) We've all got chapters that we'd like to go unpublished. If people don't respect that you want to keep details of your past private, even if it involves users on this forum, then they're in the wrong, not you.
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ShinyGirafarig
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Giraffes are adorable.

Sorry to see you go.
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HyrulianJedi
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Delfeir
Jun 30 2015, 01:58 AM
Most won't notice and even less will care
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You do you, Delf. We'll be around. Stay safe, and try to at least keep in mind the advice that was posted.
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Kiki
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Kiki Martius Chantico

Best wishes Delf! Take care!!
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Tange9t
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Spooky

I'm super late so you'll probably not see this here, but I'm really sorry things ended up the way they did man, if you ever wanna rant or talk about anything you've got my skype and I ain't gonna spread shit around. You're welcome back any time, at least in my eyes. Stay safe.
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Crash
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Wheey! I've became a human being!! I am very handsam!

Later man, hope you find peace.
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Ian889
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Death comes to all of those who oppose me.

Good day's and pleasant nights.
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