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My Life Sucks
Topic Started: Sep 7 2010, 04:07 AM (737 Views)
Shiroi Jigoku
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Okay, so right now, my life sucks.

It all boils down to lots of little things that have been going on for a month, but just recently my one friend, the one person who has been getting my through the days and weeks, told me that we can no longer be friends and she doesn't want me calling her, talking to her, e-mailing her, basically communicating with her whatsoever.

At this point, I will confess that I have considered suicide, but I haven't done it yet and I don't think I plan on it. I used to think I was too logical to ever think of it, but I guess I'm not.

I just wanted to tell you guys, so if I do suddenly drop off the temple, you guys never hear from me at all despite checking with me at e-mails, maybe I did it. I also wanted to say this so that you guys understand even if I just disappear for a little while at odd times, this is why.
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Super Slash


Don't suicide! That's never the answer, and it's never a good thing. I have no idea what's going on in your life, so I can't say much more than that, but I'm being serious when I say it. There's always another way out.

I don't think you'll actually go through with it, judging by your post, though. Sorry to hear that about your former friend; that must have really hurt. =( You'll always have the people at the Temple, though!
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Super Slash
Sep 7 2010, 04:39 AM
Don't suicide! That's never the answer, and it's never a good thing. I have no idea what's going on in your life, so I can't say much more than that, but I'm being serious when I say it. There's always another way out.

I don't think you'll actually go through with it, judging by your post, though. Sorry to hear that about your former friend; that must have really hurt. =( You'll always have the people at the Temple, though!
slash is right *nodnod*

Dude suicide is the looser's way out. I know we don't talk much,speaking of wich GET ON SKYPE, but you seem like an okay guy so don't fail at life dude, you'll make it through this and one day you'll be thankfull that you did
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The Phantom Squee
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Sound the horn and call the cry: "How many of them can we make die?"

I will kick your ass nine ways to Hell and back if you try to off yourself.
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Simplifying suicide as "the coward's way out" is cringe-worthy and not encouraging.

Talk to people. About your problems, about this. Go to a therapist, or get someone to talk you into going. Suicidal thoughts aren't things you take lightly. Even if you might not be in a critical mood right now, preventing it from escalating is a better idea than waiting it out.
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Kiki
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Alright Kuroi, first of all, HANG IN THERE. If you get into the "critical mood," as Kyuuzai described it, find someone to talk to, anyone. You know you can come to the people at the Temple at any time, day or night, and someone will be there. You're young, you've got a whole lifetime of cool stuff ahead of you so don't take all that away from yourself.

This friend, she's not worth losing your life over. This may seem irrelevant, but a few years ago, I tried to cut off contact with a girl and it made her feel suicidal. Now, what I did was horrible, but I can tell you that my reasons for doing so were complex. Not justified, but complex. This girl may have had complete pussy reasons for cutting off contact with you, or maybe she truly did have a good reason, but chances are it's complex, if she suddenly went from seeming like a great friend to "don't talk to me." So, leave her to deal with that. Something resulting from HER problems has no right to just show up and mess with you. She threw this at you out of the blue, and it seems it's not your fault, so ...don't let it push you down too much, basically. You didn't do anything to earn the loss of a friend, you should be able to at least hold your head high because of that. Just keep moving, even if you feel you have no other friends keep looking, because they'll pop up somewhere. Try to put it all behind you. I'm not saying you can just "will" the depression away, but willpower is still important. And, if you haven't already, maybe you could consider therapy. The girl I refer to here went through it, and I'm pretty sure it would take a lot more than a friend abandoning her to make her feel suicidal again.

I dunno. I hope this helps. At the very least, *hug* feel better Kuroi.
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Shiroi Jigoku
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She told the school councilor and forced me to see him.

From what I was told, most of what you said Kiki is false. Thanks, though >_<.

He contacted my mum, who's getting me in with another psychologist. So yeah, fun fun fun...

Right now I'm hanging on to the hope that we can still be friends in the future, now that I know why she did it. I'm not going to lie to you guys, remember that. I am still thinking of suicide, possibly moreso about the fact that I once considered it, but I don't know if I'll go through with it. Yesterday was extreme for me, so I was a little irrational about what I was doing...
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Phoenix7
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Odyssey, ya see~ Odyssey, ya see~

I certainly hope you two can patch things up. Like Kyuuzai said, you need to talk to people about your problems. You might not be in such a suicidal mood as yesterday, but I'm going to ask you this anyway; how do you think your friend, whether you fix things with her or not, will react to you dying? What about your still-pals? Parents? Brother? At the end of the day, suicide hurts those we love and no matter how hard it is for you, it's nothing that can never be worked out. Having gone through this sort of emotion myself, I'm just a PM away if you want to talk Kuroi.
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Delfeir
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Kuroi. I try to be a nice guy, but I am not really a nice guy. I say and do things that some would consider harsh and brutal, but it's usually only because stupidity is involved on the other end. And one of those stupid things? Suicide.

But you are a Kradenette and a friend, more or less, plus you are but a young teenager. I will forgive this momentary lapse into the feeling that killing yourself is worthwhile. I was a teenager too, I felt the same way too, it happens. If you were a bit older I just would have smacked you upside the head and not bothered to deal with this until you pulled yourself together, but again, you are young and hormonal and I have decided that you are worth saving from yourself.

As such, I'm going to offer you this very simple guide about why suicide is the stupidest goddamn thing you could ever do. It'll take about ten minutes of your time and is worth a read. It boils down to this: No matter how bad your life is, there are good things in it and it has the chance to improve. But once you commit suicide? No matter what you believe, no matter who you are or what you did, YOUR SHIT JUST GOT A HELL OF A LOT WORSE AND YOU CANNOT ESCAPE IT. Also, you just made the lives of anyone who has ever cared about you - even those you don't *know* care about you - worse, which is just as bad. There is no justification that cannot be knocked back by the response of "Grow up, be patient, and fix your shit."

So yes, read it. Ponder it. Calm the hell down. And then go deal with a psychologist. Like as not, they can probably give you decent advice to help you cope with your problems and get over it.

Rise above your raging teenage hormones and get over it. Life's good. I say this as a person who had a shitty teenage life, and now my life is pretty good. Things improve. Death does not.

Seriously, wake up.
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Nakun


^^^Agreed^^^

Don't worry about shit, it takes time and energy. I worry about my shit all the time and it sucks. Don't be like me.

Also, don't worry that thinking about suicide makes you...crazy? inhuman? You're only crazy if you choose it. For reals. It's one of those things that seems like a good idea but isn't.

Hell, if everyone who was down offed themselves, then we'd be a much smaller world. And besides, if this girl is/was a total [radio edit], forget her. Granted, I don't know the situation, and I don't know you, but you, by virtue of being here are a good person. I don't think I've ever know a bad person from here. And, as everyone else has already said, you can count on us. Hell, I've been gone for 6 years almost and people here talk to me and help with my shit. You are actually a part of this community.

Keep going on. You'll get through it. Don't worry about all the alternate histories that you think you lost. Worry about the future and make it yours.
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Seoulbowz
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Supergeil

I'd commit suicide if I lived in Australia, too. :trollface:
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b l o n d e b o n d
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Wombo Combo

I'd live in Austrailia if I committed suicide, too :trollface:
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Jenn-uh
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When I was 12 there were several months where I thought suicide was the way to go. Don't do it. Getting my sobbing-every-night ass to the psychiatrist was one of the most important decisions of my life. Anti-depressants ftw.
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The Phantom Squee
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Sound the horn and call the cry: "How many of them can we make die?"

Well, to be fair, anti-depressants don't work too well for everyone. I was on them for a little while in high school, and while they made me happy day-to-day, in the long run they just made me think "I'm so pitiful, I haven to take medication not to be depressed."

So glad I'm out of that phase.
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Black Kitty
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Resurrected

Some years ago (I'm talking about 1 or 2 years ago), I felt the same way.

Don't consider suicide, Kuroi.

Just think about it. If life is worse now, then it can only really get better later on.

~mao...
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Shiroi Jigoku
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Hey guys, this gets better </sarcasm>

So, being Catholic I went to reconciliation yesterday, seeking penance from the way I treated said friend, and my priest told me to apologise to her. So, I tried, but she refuses to talk to me and I think I made things worse. Whoop-de-[radio edit]ong-doo >_>.
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Sodate
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Dude that's bad =/ I wish I could help >.<
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Momentime
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uh oh

Dude, just forget about her. Move on, gather a new circle of friends. If she wants to be a giant drama queen out of nowhere, let her and do not give a shit.

I'm not saying it's easy considering how close you felt to her, but you gotta do it. Life goes on.

But above all, forgive her. And learn from this.
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I think you should figure out why she's avoiding you like this, because it seems like you still don't know.

If she won't answer you personally no matter how persistently you ask, see if her friends can help you. Mostly because I don't want you to assume anything about this girl that would lead you to contemplate suicide again.

And if she turns out to have been an asshole to you, then that would be the time to find a better friend.
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