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Topic Started: Mar 29 2009, 05:17 AM (243 Views)
Delfeir
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Adachi is not amused.

I try so hard to help. The one that matters the least to me is myself... if someone is in trouble that I know, I do my utmost to talk to them, to hear their problems and work with them to fix it. And if it works, I keep going... I try it on more people... everyone has their problems and I try so hard to fix things, to help them. But sometimes - almost all the time really - I can't. And then I watch them spiral further down and become horribly depressed myself, because I just can't help... I fail at fixing it and just... ugh. I want to help so bad but I never can. It just keeps on going and everytime it happens, I'm staring at my friend or loved one, unable to do *anything*.

Why the [radio edit] can't I fix things? Why do I have to be so damn miserable about all this? Why can't... things just work out, for once? For just once?! I just... I just want to help... is that too much to ask...?
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Gilgamesh
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solbowz Aurarius

Tsk. This isn't pointless gibberish, man >_>

And I'm sorry T_T
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Momentime
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uh oh

How would you feel if someone tried to fix your problems for you?

You do not help, and try and fix other people's problems for them. Whatever problems a person comes across, they must face it and solve it by themselves. Alone. Nothing else, no one else.

So, what do you do? Rather than watch them despair, you encourage them. You cheer them up. You make sure they have the right attitude that is unwavering. You make sure they don't stop until it's finished and that they have it in their head that they will overcome it.

Don't advise them. Share ideas. The secret to this world is perspective.
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Enro
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Sol Aurarius
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Right now Delf, I'm actually on the receiving end of a lot of those friendly gestures. People wondering how I am, inviting me to do things where they wouldn't have before, you know, just odd little things which I'm sure are designed to make me feel better. But the thing is, while I appreciate it, it's all really something that I have to get through myself, like Shadow said.

So, please Delf, don't worry. They appreciate what you're doing for them, although they may not show it. You just need to learn to detach yourself a little, you know? They'll be all good eventually, so no need to worry about it too much, okay?
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